Life starts at 50, gets great at 60 and primo at 70.

Smells That Evoke Memories: A Journey Through Scent and Time

The blog "Smells That Evoke Memories" explores how scents trigger vivid recollections. From Dixie Peach and Brylcreem in childhood barbershops to the rebellious whiff of a first marijuana "lid" at 14, each smell—like cotton candy at fairs, mimeograph handouts, or Vicks VapoRub—unlocks specific moments. Family rituals, like Swanson’s TV dinners, and hardships, like loaner gym clothes, are recalled through aromas. Universal scents, such as freshly cut grass or campfire smoke, evoke carefree summers and starlit nights. These olfactory time machines connect us to joy, struggle, and growth, weaving a tapestry of personal history through the power of scent.

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Who Owns California? A Historical and Ethical Exploration

The blog "Who Owns California?" explores the complex history of California's ownership, from indigenous stewardship to Spanish and Mexican rule, culminating in U.S. control after the Mexican-American War and the Treaty of Guadalupe Hidalgo. It examines competing claims—indigenous, Mexican, and American—questioning the ethics of conquest versus stewardship. The blog highlights ongoing land disputes, cultural movements, and the philosophical nature of ownership. Extending to America, it argues no single entity holds undisputed claim, urging acknowledgment of historical injustices and inclusive dialogue to reconcile past wrongs with modern realities for a more equitable future.

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Know when to roar and when to be silent

Don't fall for the trap of thinking loud means strong and quiet means weak. It's the lion's silence that sends chills down your spine, not his roar. That's the power move right there.  So, here's the real talk: be more silent. Let your actions speak louder than your words. Only open your mouth when it's time to close the deal.  Trust me, I've been in the game long enough to know.  Remember, the most dangerous players in any industry are the ones you never see coming. Be that player. Build in silence, strike with precision, and watch your legacy grow.

 

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My Dream 73rd Birthday

A Southern California boomer, born in 1952, envisions a serene 73rd birthday in 2025. The day begins with a Northridge sunrise, Pink Floyd’s “Shine On You Crazy Diamond,” and coffee. A Venice Beach stroll follows, with Rolling Stones tunes and a vibrant Hawaiian shirt, dreaming of world peace. Lunch features Jack in the Box tacos shared with son Jordan,  with wife Kim daughter Alexis and sister-in-law Kirsten. Afternoon joys include painting, planning a herb garden, and storytelling for pureaudacity.com. Evening brings a streamed sermon, stargazing, and family chats, cherishing life’s moments over youth-chasing fads. Life is good at 73.

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Why Faith-Based Marriages Thrive in 2025

The blog "Why Faith-Based Marriages Thrive in 2025" compares historical faith-based (Christian, Muslim, Jewish) marriages with 2025 modern marriages. Historically, faith-based marriages had low divorce rates (below 5%) and patriarchal structures, while non-faith-based unions had higher divorce (10-15%) and less communal support. In 2025, faith-based marriages maintain lower divorce rates (30% less than average) and community support, contrasting with non-faith-based marriages’ 40-50% divorce rates. Marriages have evolved from duty-driven to egalitarian and love-based. By 2035, faith-based marriages will blend tradition with inclusivity, while non-faith-based unions will innovate with technology, leading to a hybrid model balancing stability and flexibility.

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